Welcome

Hooking Up & Staying Hooked (HUSH) is the guide for high school guys to having game, getting girls, and hooking up. This is the how to of relationships, romance, and getting intimate for your life. Whether it’s talking to girls in the hallway or taking her on a great date with your meager allowance, the advice on this site is meant to help you hook up and stay hooked.

Sure there are a lot of “experts” out there that claim to give you everything you need to pick up chicks or score with women – but they overlook a few realities that limit you. What does it mean to have a “bachelor pad” anyway when you live in your parents’ house? Or when was the last time you met a girl at a nightclub? Leave the other guides alone and get the advice fit for you.

Dig in, tell your friends, and delete your browser history… you’re about to discover the secrets to success with the opposite sex in high school.

What You’ll Find

  • You – Advice on making sure you’re ready for grabbing girls’ attention.
  • Dating – Tips on asking her on a date, taking her out, and being a bf.
  • The Bases – Hooking Up How To’s. Somebody’s got to tell you.
  • Problems – Trouble shooting the rough spots of the dating world.
  • Ask – Got your own questions? Ask them here.
  • Advice – New advice updated all the time!

Recent Advice

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How to not be a controlling boyfriend

Figuring out how to act in a relationship can be more complicated than AP Chem. The advice we get from adults usually doesn’t get more helpful than, “be a gentleman” (what does that mean?!). This means too often you have to figure it out as you go using the clues you gather from what you see and hear around you. But what sucks is the way other guys talk about how they act in relationships usually doesn’t match up to how they actually act. Most dudes talk a lot of game that if you actually followed would make you into a real nutjob.

The Message: Be In Control

The message we get is that we have to run the show. You have to know where your girl is, who she’s with, and what she’s up to all the time. This Message Sucks!

  • It’s not fun.
  • It’s not attractive.
  • It’s abusive.

Some guys will (Read more…)

“Let’s Just Be Friends”

She said let's just be friends

Stranger. Girl you know. Friend. Girlfriend. Ex.

It’s easy when a girl you know fits easily into one and only one of these categories. If only things always stayed that simple. These lines will blur, your relationships will take unexpected turns, and sometimes things will change in ways you don’t want them to.

So what do you do when a girl tells you she “just wants to be friends”? (Read more…)

A Girl’s Body is NOT a Plaything

Apparently not enough guys out there have the message. A girl’s body is not a plaything. They are not objects to be tossed around between friends at a party, nor silly things to be manipulated and photographed for laughs later on.

Too many women have been hurt when young men around them forgot this. Their lives have been damaged beyond imagination. Two high school guys in Stubenville, Ohio are in jail because of this. Three more from Northern California have been arrested in a different incident, and four others in yet another soon will be in Nova Scotia for being similarly thick-headed and not understanding this message. A girl’s body is not a plaything.

The big question is: What’s the difference between these guys and you? The answer: It’s up to you.

The harm and the pain (Read more…)