Figuring out whether or not a girl is attracted to you sometimes feels like the most frustrating puzzle encountered by man. You may have already mastered flirting with her, asking her out, and picking her up to go out, but sometimes the entire time we’re with a girl we’re lost as to whether or not she wants us back.

While it isn’t the ultimate yes or no test, a quick way to help you measure how much she might like you back is to engage in just a little bit of casual contact. We’ve given you hints about initiating this on your own before. But letting it happen and paying attention to how long it happens might also help you figure out if she’s interested.

The most classic example of the physical connection that hints to how much she likes you is letting your knees touch. Let’s take a look at this scale of attraction based on how much knee knocking the two of you are doing.

Your knees bump – She apologizes and pulls away
(It could just be that she’s feeling nervous, shy, and a little awkward. Or it could be unpleasant for her to even think of you two touching. It’s hard to say but odds are her face will give you some clues.)
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Your knee falls next to hers – She lets it linger for a moment before shifting
(She’s warming up to the idea of you to touching at length.)
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Your knees come to touch – She leaves it
(Great sign! She’s totally comfortable with physical contact between the two of you.)
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When your knees come into contact she pushes back into you
(She is into you. The idea of touching you is a turn on and she’s not going to back away from it.)

This is not a foolproof measure, but by paying attention to the way she responds to your touch (or how she touches you), you’ll start to be able t gauge how much a girl might be into you.